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[quote=Anonymous]I made up a song to sing when I put my charges down for a nap - part of the lyrics are, "... when we part you still must know - love never ends because I am so devoted to you". I am so sorry your former employer will not let you see the girls - that is such a huge mistake. No adult should ever "abandon" a child (and that is what the child feels - abandonment). There have been studies done that point to a emotional memory of loss that can change a child's life. I know this is true of my DH whose beloved grandfather died when he was three. DH has no conscious memory of his grandfather but has been effected by the loss. One moment a beloved person is in your life and the next moment he/she is gone. Of course it has an effect long after the conscious memory of the person fades. It is not at all difficult to have your former nanny come over once a week after she stops working for you - and then gradually increase the intervals between visits. [/quote]
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