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[quote=Anonymous]Sitter has been watching DD about 10-15 hours a week for two months now.  She is on the young side (mid-20s), but has experience as a full time nanny and I thought overall she was professional enough.  Last time she watched DD was last Wednesday and before she left, we confirmed that we would not see her on Friday (she had a doctors appointment and canceled on us) and the next time we would see her would be today.  Normally, she texts me the day before she's supposed to come when there are schedule changes so when she didn't yesterday, I texted her yesterday evening to confirm today.  I texted and called her a couple more times today, but no response and she did not show up this morning.  I can think of three likely scenarios: she's had some major emergency that prevents her from contacting me (God forbid), she forgot due to the holiday weekend or she found another job with more hours and is ghosting me.  Of the three, the second is really unlikely because she's very on top of our appointments so either something horrible has happened or she's dropped us.  We've had a good relationship up to this point, but it's happened to us in the past that young caregivers will flake or drop us because it's easier to them than dealing with the unpleasantness of letting a NF go.  How long should I give her before I stop giving her the benefit of the doubt and assume she has dropped us?[/quote]

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