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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Card & big flowers. A few days off when needed.[/quote]

A few days off?  Your generosity is underwhelming!  Her mother died!  I do not care how long she had been sick, death is a whole new dimension.
  Her mother is gone FOREVER.  I took two weeks off last year when my sister passed away unexpectedly!

You give her a minimum of two weeks off.  Thetebis an unbelievable amount of  things that must be done when a family member  dies.  Was  she her mother  legal guardian?  Why do you even need to ask?  FYI, flowers and a card is what I send to work colleagues.  People I am close to I do a hell of a lot more--send food, ask her what she needs.  Use your brain
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Please calm down, PP.  This is OP and our nanny doesn't want any time off now - of course I offered.    She was not the legal guardian - her brother is - and according to our nanny there is very little that needs to be done.  The services will not be held until September.  I have asked her what she needs and she said she needs to giggle with my daughter.

Please stop assuming I am the bad guy.  I love this woman and would do whatever she needed.  I got some great suggestions for a few extras here.    [/quote]

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