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[quote=Anonymous]I had an AP very similar to yours, OP, and around weeks 4-6, I saw the red flags but ignored them. In hindsight, I wish I had re-matched. Her lack of common sense and inability to invest in her own social life drive all of us mad, and we all avoided spending time in our own home because she was ALWAYs there. She wasn't a terrible AP, but she was a terrible and selfish housemate, and refused to leave our house at the end of her year. If you think your AP is abnormally dependent on you now, just imagine how it will be after 12 long months. I tried everything- getting her gym memberships, Groupon coupons to various events/classes, etc, but she just shopped for clothes and made zero friends.[/quote]
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