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[quote=Anonymous]And she is actually starting to show a little.  I have extremely mixed feelings about this.

My oldest has a lot of issues and we go to OT and water therapy 2 times per week each. He has a specialist that has to be with him in class because his moods are too unpredictable. His parents have been given a lot of guidance and tools to deal with it but all of the therapists basically end up being frank with me and say that if the parents would utilize the tools and be more consistent he would overcome most of it because most of it is behavioral. My toddler is mimicking his behavior. The toddler is 28 months and still only has about 10 words that actually sound like real words but the rest is babble and he is way behind. We now have him in speech therapy (thank God)

A year ago Mb joked about another baby. I laughed. They have their hands so full and Db doesn't want more. He is always on edge as it is and can only take the oldest in small doses. The grandparents are very hands off and practically want nothing to do with the kids which is sad. Same for aunts and uncles with the exception of mb's brother that comes to town about twice a year.

Mb lost her job months ago and worked hard to find another job. I did notice a few months ago during her search she had stocked up on pregnancy tests. Then I saw the vitamins. A week after that I saw a positive test in her bathroom drawer. (its still there)  This evening in her baggy dress I saw the bump when she brushed her dress on the counter.  She has only been at this new job for about a month.

Im feeling anxious about all of this. We have worked so hard to get my oldest to adjust to not getting much time with his parents and to deal with his jealousy over the youngest and limit his attention seeking behaviors. Now to think that this will all have a newborn added is crazy to me. This is a child that can get so out of control that he has to be put in the basement and medicated to sleep.

Why would she bring a baby into this environment? I can't wrap my head around it. I feel like Im going to have to leave. Its been about 2 years and I love them dearly but I just don't know... [/quote]

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