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[quote=Anonymous]We are planning to move before the start of the 2018-2019 school year. We are also planning to build a house in the new city, so we'd start doing that around September 2017 (we are currently narrowing down lot choices and choosing a builder). As a result, it will be obvious in a couple of months that we're going to move. We've had our nanny for four years now and love her, but we're not sure when to tell her that we'll be moving. Things are hard to keep secret in this day and age (hello, Facebook), and we wouldn't be keeping the move secret from family and friends, so I don't know how she'd not find out, but I could try really hard to keep things under wraps if that would be best. I'm hoping that an entire year will be enough time to let it sink in, find a new job, etc., but I also don't want to put a damper on an entire year. She says we're the best family she's ever nannied for and we're never going to get rid of her, but I don't think she's considered that we might move away. She's one of the only reasons we'd consider staying, but we have to think long-term, and we've already stayed here longer than planned partly because she's been so great. So, do you think a year is way too much notice? Should we keep things quiet until closer to the time? Or will she then feel like we've known and were hiding it from her all that time? Which is worse?[/quote]
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