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[quote=Anonymous]Do you think she's making a conscious effort to focus on her kids, without realizing how it might make you feel? I have two young kids and they demand my attention the minute I walk in the door. The entire evening goes better if I devote the first 2-3 minutes to giving them a long hug, saying hello, asking how their day was, etc... So I have learned to make sure I do that. (I do always say hi to the nanny though. But I often have to ask her to wait a minute so I can talk to the kids first.) Maybe she's oblivious - not intentionally rude. Perhaps you can find a way to lightly say something, without making it a huge deal but making your point? Also, perhaps try to change your expectations. Be busy and don't talk to her when she gets home. Know that she isn't likely to address you, and just respond when she does. If you can adjust to not being a priority for her when she walks in the door it might bother you less. [/quote]
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