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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The AP is not a maid and should not cook for everybody. It's not fair for you to ask her that, especially since she already does her 45 hours and that her job is related to the children, she's not there to take care of the parents as well.[/quote] I disagree. As "being a family member", all adults in our home make dinner at least once a week (if we want to eat anyway). I cook 2-3times, DH cooks 1-2 times, AP (if she wants to eat dinner at our home) cooks once- her choice of food. Very fair. Technically it doesn't need to be during work hours, but it seems like a nice way for the HF to handle it. I had a prior AP who went out every evening- to the gym or school or out with friends, and she ate on the fly all week. I certainly didn't make her cook adult dinner when she didn't partake in eating it. But our current AP who expects a hot meal nightly- yeah, we expect her to cook once.[/quote]
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