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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I am leaving towards it.

I matched about 3 weeks ago. I am the only onbe reaching out for contact. She hasn't asked anything about us the kids or details about her upcoming year.

We matched on the arrival date of 15 August. She texted me that she doesn't think that is possible because she is traveling now and won't be home in time to get a visa. I contacted my agency and they said it was possible as long as she gets an appt by a certain date. I wrote her this and she has yet to make the appointment.

Doesn't seem excited to join us like others have in the past. Just some yellow/red flags to me. I recently went thru a hard rematch and don't want to deal with another or put my kids thru it again.

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Ditch her and save yourself thrthe  aggrevation. If you don't you'll regret it. Much messier to have her here and go into rematch.[/quote]

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Gosh .. she hasn't asked anything about you and the kids?  I would have cut her loose at the interview stage.  Any candidate who does not demonstrate any shred of curiosity and ask relevant questions about us, the children, the life here etc. would make us suspicious about her true intentions.  On top of that, a non-responsive and non-eager candidate would be a red flag, too.  Just like dating, if you do all the reach out and she never cares to know about you, then she is not all that into you.  Do yourself and her a favor and cancel.  You have so much time before August to find the right AP for your family.

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She asked at the interview stage. Since we matched it's been almost radio silence.

Haven't had this with other AP's I've had.

Thanks for the feedback.
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