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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I am leaving towards it.

I matched about 3 weeks ago. I am the only onbe reaching out for contact. She hasn't asked anything about us the kids or details about her upcoming year.

We matched on the arrival date of 15 August. She texted me that she doesn't think that is possible because she is traveling now and won't be home in time to get a visa. I contacted my agency and they said it was possible as long as she gets an appt by a certain date. I wrote her this and she has yet to make the appointment.

Doesn't seem excited to join us like others have in the past. Just some yellow/red flags to me. I recently went thru a hard rematch and don't want to deal with another or put my kids thru it again.

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Cancel it.  HUGE red flag.  Same thing happened to me - we matched with someone who sort of seemed like they were dragging their feet.  It didn't really occur to me at the time, because why would someone go through the whole application process and match if they weren't so sure about coming?  But that was absolutely the case - she dragged her feet on the visa appointment, didn't contact me much at all, didn't seem that excited when we did communicate.  She lasted a month of being miserable before she went back home.  If someone is not hugely excited about coming, they're not going to make it.  [/quote]

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