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[quote=Anonymous]I wrote a long reply yesterday and have no idea why it didn't post. I should have -- twice in our ten years of hosting. One ended up OK but it was a lot of work in the course of the year. The other, this year, I was correct in my nagging sense that the AP hadn't correctly represented his goals during matching, and in fact when he got here, it wasn't to be an AP but instead to meet coaches to get a div 1 scholarship for soccer. As soon as he tried out and got one, he went home. It threw us into a tailspin of rematch. I so wish I had cancelled the match on the first, second, or third time that I asked him last spring "Are you really sure you want to be an AP? Your face lights up every time you talk about soccer in a way that it doesn't when you talk about being an AP." Sigh. OP, if you're thinking you should, then chances are you should. Best of luck.[/quote]
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