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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course you can ask. Just do it the way you would ask anyone to do something they don't really want to do: 1) Describe the situation: "Hey. I agreed to take out the trash if it filled while I was here, but lately, the trash has been full every morning when I come in to work." 2) Tell them why this is a problem for you: "This means that I either have to take it out and leave your children alone inside, or I have to leave food and other garbage on the counter until I can take it out at naptime, which is kind of gross." 3) Ask them to do what you want them to do: "Can you please take it out at night or before you leave for work in the morning?" 4) Tell them why it would benefit them: "I would just feel a lot more comfortable that way, and it would be safer for your girls if I don't have to leave them alone at all." Don't be sarcastic or passive aggressive. Don't apologize or look at your shoes. I also think an alternative is to just empty the garbage at naptime every day and leave it completely empty. Then you walk in with it 2/3 full and fill it up the other 1/3 during your day. [/quote] +1 This is greatly worded! Would go this route. Just wondering, OP, how many people are there in this house or how small are these bins? Just wondering because I'm kind of impressed how they fill it up in a night[/quote]
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