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[quote=Anonymous]Of course you can ask. Just do it the way you would ask anyone to do something they don't really want to do: 1) Describe the situation: "Hey. I agreed to take out the trash if it filled while I was here, but lately, the trash has been full every morning when I come in to work." 2) Tell them why this is a problem for you: "This means that I either have to take it out and leave your children alone inside, or I have to leave food and other garbage on the counter until I can take it out at naptime, which is kind of gross." 3) Ask them to do what you want them to do: "Can you please take it out at night or before you leave for work in the morning?" 4) Tell them why it would benefit them: "I would just feel a lot more comfortable that way, and it would be safer for your girls if I don't have to leave them alone at all." Don't be sarcastic or passive aggressive. Don't apologize or look at your shoes. I also think an alternative is to just empty the garbage at naptime every day and leave it completely empty. Then you walk in with it 2/3 full and fill it up the other 1/3 during your day. [/quote]
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