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[quote=Anonymous]Our nanny is great with DC, other mothers compliment her to me, but she has her issues. Biggest is her attitude and I am really fed up. She never takes responsibility for her mistakes, acts like it's the world's fault when she forgets that DC's appointment is at X time or forgets to ask me in advance when she needs to take work off early (and as a result, I say no). I expect to let her go sometime this year and do not know how to handle the parting and reference. I think the fair thing would be to tell her in nicest, constructive terms why I am letting her go, but I imagine she will ask me for a reference? With our last nanny, I was able to give her a glowing reference yet spoke honestly but in a positive manner when asked about her weak points. I do not feel like I can give this nanny a positive reference.[/quote]
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