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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are about to become adoptive parents to a newborn baby boy at the beginning of April. I will be taking leave through at least July 10 or so. When should I begin looking for a nanny? We will be at a family wedding the first week in July. I dont know if that changes your answer. Thanks.[/quote] If I were the bio mother, I would change my mind knowing that you did not care enough to stay home with the child I was giving to you and we're farming him out to a nanny because working was more important than my son that I was giving up. FWIW, I did give up a child for adoption and the mother did become a SAHM. This was one of my requirements in my choice.[/quote] This is rude. PP, if you would have kept your child, would you have been able to be a sahm? Not every household in America can afford to live on a one person income. You don't know anything about their situation and finances. It's also very good to have both parents working. Most women are better moms when they have a career. It also teaches the child women are more than just a housewife. Be glad people aren't making snarky comments about how you are commenting on someone else's situation when you decided not to be a mom. Don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. [/quote] Pp again. I don't think you should comment about how people don't care. You can't sit there and comment on someone's ability to parent when you beglectee your responsibilities. [/quote]
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