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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the op that posted about my mb losing her job and how I was concerned about the changes that would occur. I have to admit that while my charges are proned to misbehaving while their parents are around, her presence in my older charges life has made a world of difference in him.

This particular charge I have made posts about in the past as he allegedly suffers from many disorders ranging from sensory processing disorder (what I was told by my agency, during the interview and upon being hired) but it was soon revealed he has extreme ADHD ( :roll: ) ODD (oppositional defiance disorder) impulsive issues and other things. He has occupational therapy and aba therapy and a facilitator in his class.

However these things are barely noticeable to me and his previous aba therapist and class facilitator. We all spoke of how he displays none of these things with us but will with his parents and other people depending on their temperament.

But last week he had his BEST week at school thus far! He also displayed better behavior with me. He had his moments but it was as if his mother having energy to do things with him in the evening after I left and not her working made an improvement in him. He has been so pleasant, less angry and combative.  He seems to really be benefiting from feeling like her priority in the evening, or just knowing she is "around".

Granted she still is looking for a job and doesn't join us for his therapies which I find strange even thought they sent home paperwork that says parents should be involved in it. But I almost feel like she shouldn't return to work at all while they are little or just part time or work from home because of the change in him. I know this would mean I need another job and that this is even feasible for them but it's amazing the change it's made in him.[/quote]

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