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[quote=Anonymous]Say no to the cleaning. Calmly and unemotionally tell her that cleaning is not part of your job and you are very disappointed in her that she would ask. Say a cool goodbye. Leave her wondering if you will show up for work when they get home. Once, DB wrote in the baby log, "If you have time could you do some ironing". I thought it would be the baby's ironing but the basket was full of DB's shirts. I was clearly angry when he got home but contained it and told him in no uncertain terms that I only iron for the baby and was insulted that he would ever ask me. As I was leaving that day, which happened to be a Friday, I said, "Let's all take the weekend to see how we can proceed". Well, he and MB were different people come Monday morning. [/quote]
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