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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. The tasks are child related and ones I normally do already (Homework/spellings) which is why I get annoyed when she mentions it. The child is 7 years old and I was always employed as a nanny, not a cleaner/housekeeper. I do however, always tidy up/wash dishes even those that aren't mine or the childs. I never leave mess for them either and she has even said I don't need to worry about tidying up after her kid as she knows how untidy she is. This was said when I first started. However, I am learning that MB seems to say one thing but feels another. If she wanted a housekeeper then she should have employed someone specifically to do that. Maybe that's what the problem is. They have decided they need a cleaner rather then a nanny. Personally, I would want someone to engage with my child, support them with homework, take them to the park etc but that's just me. Either way, it is uncomfortable for me right now and I feel upset every time I am there as their behavior and expectations are not clear. I don't think even they know what they want but I agree with whoever said that they seem to be on different pages and therefore, I just can't win. No nanny wants to feel her work and personal qualities are not being recognized. It is a horrible feeling as good nannies put so much into their jobs. [/quote]
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