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[quote=Anonymous]I am good to this family. I work around their very odd schedules and interact well with their daughter. I am super reliable and never take sick days and am flexible to staying late if needs be. I have lots of experience and also am making sure homework gets done every night. MB is a weird one. One day she will be super sweet and caring, almost excessively, the next (and what seems to be the case lately) is that she will send me abrupt texts and only speak to her kid when she walks through the door whilst ignoring me. I only work for them 2 afternoons a week and a Sunday afternoon so only a couple of hours at a time. Lately, I have seen a lot of DB and I kind of get the impression that he doesn't agree with how much I get paid as he thinks it is too much. For the record, I get paid the average so nothing excessive. Ever since I have been seeing him more,, MB seems to be asking me by text, quite abruptly to make sure homework gets done or to ask me to do another task and it is rarely asked politely. She also sent a weird text which seemed to imply in a passive aggressive sense that I wasn't tidying up properly. Again, I am very tidy and there would have been one game left out if that the night she text me. I am paranoid that they discuss how little I do and DB seems to be watching me a lot like the other night, he came in and we were busy doing homework. I then tidied up and DB watched as I did it. I don't feel they appreciate what I do and am not happy with the thought that they think I am not doing enough. Their daughter is hard to engage in anything and isn't the easiest of children but I interact with her constantly so it does hurt that they don't seem to appreciate anything and it is like they resent paying me. MB's have you ever felt like your nanny didn't desere her money or disagreed with your partner on the rate of pay? Sometimes I feel they only hire me as they know they will struggle to get someone to cover their weird shifts and that if I get a Christmas present it won't be because of the hard work I do but because they want to keep me through fear of having a nightmare of finding someone new.[/quote]
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