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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the more important part is to consider why these gifts make you uncomfortable. Is it because it emphasizes the fact that you are an employee? Do you prefer a more "equal professional" or "equal family"-type relationship with your bosses?

No one expects you to reciprocate; they aren't friends or family in that sense. They are your employers, trying to spread the wealth a little bit, and to make you feel good about working for them while demonstrating that they appreciate you.

If you can articulate to yourself why the gifts make you uncomfortable, then you can decide whether the answer is to accept them graciously or to explain your discomfort to your bosses.[/quote]

I was raised with a big emphasis on paying your own way and that hard work is a moral value.  It makes me uncomfortable to be given something I haven't earned.  I do give them gifts but always "from the kids" something that we make together or assembled from photos or that sort of thing.  [/quote]

Seriously, get over it, OP.  I receive end of the year bonuses at my job and give bonuses and gifts to our wonderful nanny.  You are being very self-righteous and self-centered.  Hard work is a moral value and so is gratitude.  Try to cultivate gratitude and graciousness.  [/quote]

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