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[quote=Anonymous]I have been a Nanny for a four-yr. old boy since he was four-mos.

I watch him 4x a wk. now & take him out on daily outings in his neighborhood.
(I am not permitted to drive him anywhere.)

Well for the past 1.5 yrs., we have been hanging out w/a group of three other nannies
and their charges who are around the same age.
The kids get along really good and we all did too.

Recently one of the Nannies has been getting under my skin.
I have always been kind to her, but lately she hasn't been to me.

When I say something, she will roll her eyes at me + I hear her making snide remarks about 
me to the other Nannies after I say something.
One of the other Nannies who I thought was cool w/me seems to always laugh along w/the rude Nanny 
whenever she mocks me.

If it matters, both of these Nannies are mid-late 20's while I am mid-40's.

This all started happening when these two Nannies started socializing outside of work.

My charge loves loves to get together w/their charges & play whenever I care for him.
Yet w/all due respect, I no longer want to be in the company of these 2 immature + rude Nannies.

We will still see each other at the park, playgroups, library and playground,
It will be awkward seeing them and my charge will want to join up w/them since he knows the Nannies 
as well.

One last point:
I texted one of the Nannies last night & told her that I knew the rude Nanny mocked me when I was around 
and that I felt it was best for me if I just wasn't around her anymore.
She of course denied this + defended the other Nanny to the hilt.

I have today (Friday) off, but will see them next week.
The Nanny that I texted abruptly stopped texting me yesterday even though she promised to call me last night.
So I am assuming she told the other Nanny and now they both are mad now.

What do I do now when I run into them??
Most importantly, what do I say to my charge about the changed dynamic??

TIA Everyone![/quote]

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