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[quote=Anonymous]As a veteran nanny I would say this is common and understandable and temporary. Soon MB will realize that her child just doesn't see it as an either or proposition- the child loves the nanny as a nanny and the mother as a mom. We adults may be confused but the kids usually have it down just fine. Now if you start to see signs of a disorganized attachment then suggest some bond nutritive activities for the family, without mentioning your personal concerns. Activities like baby massage are good because it's not a part of the routine care that everyone does with the baby. It can be special. Just let go of any ill feelings toward MB and keep being awesome. Jealousy is normal. Their appreciation for your loving care hopefully is bigger then their fears.[/quote]
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