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[quote=Anonymous]A wonderful nanny took care of our daughter from 3mo to a little past 3y, when we moved her to a preschool (no issues with the nanny, just ready for a change).  Nanny was very sad, but understood, and she has expressed interest in keeping in touch.  We would like to do that, but are unsure of the details.  I am a little embarrassed that after 3 years, we are not better friends, but the only thing we've really had in common is DD.

For example -- she asked to spend a weekend afternoon with DD at a nearby park/shopping center, including dinner.  Similarly, she has said if we ever want to take her out of preschool for a day, she'd love to have her (she's now watching other kids in her own home, but adding our daughter would not exceed her license).  Should we offer to pay for her time, or for dinner?  I think she'd refuse, but would it be offensive to offer? Or to NOT offer?

We are planning to invite her whole family over (husband and two older kids) for dinner sometime soon.  Is that appropriate reciprocation, if we alternate that sort of thing?  I'll be honest - I expect it to be a little awkward, but she was such a huge part of our DDs life for so long, that I want to help them stay in touch for real, not just a Christmas card every year.  I'm a bit of an antisocial introvert myself, so I'm struggling with how to transition from boss to friendship.  Thanks for your help.[/quote]

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