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[quote=Anonymous]I no longer speak with the families while interviewing, partly because I want to see that ap is independent and driving this process without too much influence from the parents. I also don't want to give the impression that we will become friends with the extended family. I did speak with the parent of AP1 and 2 but stopped afterwards once I realized that the warmer you get with the extended family, the relationship expectations seem to increase (communications, gifts, visits from abroad), which become demanding to manage as you get more and more au pairs (we had 8). That said, I would be concerned about the lack of support from her family. She is clearly going against their wishes. Is she escaping anything? I'd want to prove more about the relationship...[/quote]
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