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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] The two possible explanations that pop into my mind are that either he is just engaged in sensory seeking behavior in general (a lot of kids who have trouble regulating sensory systems will need a lot of sensory input, and constantly want touching and hugging, etc.). If that were the case, you would see him seeking out other types of sensory input such as always touching walls when he walks down the hallway, fiddling with toys, possibly putting things in his mouth, etc.

The other thing that might explain how extreme this behavior is is if he has some attachment issues. You say that he has had three nannies before you, none of whom were around for very long. It also sounds as if the parents are a little bit detached, So he may not have had a strong attachment figure when he was very young. If that is the case, he may not have a sense of what a healthy attachment relationship feels like, and he is trying to get you to bond with him in a way that is not age-appropriate because he didn't get those needs met when he was a baby/toddler. If that rings true for you  at all, then I would look more into attachment disorders and try to get some ideas for how to work with him. [/quote]

Thank you!  I think both of your assessments may be onto something. His parents are a bit detached at times and his own father acts like he can't stand him sometimes due to other behavioral issues he has when I am not around. I am going to suggest that he be evaluated because it sounds like he may benefit from some occupational therapy. The positive thing about them is they are very open to suggestions and input when it comes to him and value the opinions of his caregivers and teachers.

I appreciate you taking time to read and respond [/quote]

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