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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have to state upfront OP that finding a plan for back-up childcare is not your nanny's responsibility at all. That responsibility lies on YOU and you alone. That being said, I totally understand your frustration. Honestly I would be so done w/her. For her to take so much time off, leaving you high + dry w/out childcare is definitely a nanny deal-breaker. She's not taking her position seriously & seems to be taking your kind-heartedness for granted. I would give her her walking papers and find a more reliable + responsible nanny who values your family enough to make a decent effort in her employment w/you. Her problems shouldn't be yours as well. Good luck![/quote] Finding backup care in a traditional situation wouldn't be the nanny's responsibility, but when she's already taken off almost a month of work over half a year? It is beyond excessive. She should be trying to make this easier on the family 0P, I agree this is not the right relationship for either of you and you need to move on[/quote] I respectfully disagree. In ANY nanny situation, why would it ever be left up to the nanny to provide back-up childcare for her nanny family....??! Since we are talking about the family's children, it is solely left to the parents to seek a back-up childcare plan. This nanny sounds irresponsible, undependable, flaky & lacks a good work ethic overall. I would never in a million years let her find a suitable replacement nanny for my child![/quote]
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