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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- Sorry if I wasn't clear. She asked if this church was nearby and I let her know that its 20mins or so away. She hasn't asked directly for us to drive  her there but I think she's assuming that we will because she talks about it as if she already has plans on going. Yes it would be ideal if she stayed with her family over the weekend so she could attend church there and we could have more family time but I do no want to be unreasonable with the person taking care of our child by asking her to leave every weekend. [/quote]

You STILL haven't said what the request is. It sounds like there actually is NOT one, but that you're anticipating one. I think you need to have a frank talk with her. One option could be that you drive her for the first month (four times) and in that time it's on her to make friends and arrange church carpooling. I agree with the poster who said you need to have a frank talk with her about weekends - is she homeless on weekends without your home? Do you pay for her food? Is she house-bound without your car?[/quote]

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