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[quote=Anonymous]What is your concern here? With this level of behavior at age four, they have been struggling with this for YEARS, which tells me that their requests for advice are disingenuous. If they had any true desire to change this dynamic they would. Something about this particular kind of disfunction works for them. Maybe they feel guilty about working, maybe they believe that the bad behavior is a sign that he is "sensitive" or even "bright," maybe they like to feel that he is closer to them and this behavior makes them feel special. Whatever it is, don't plan on their changing and DO NOT offer parenting advice. They won't listen and if you hit too close to home they will turn on you. So you need to decide whether you can be the only adult in that household. Can you continue in this job under those circumstances?[/quote]
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