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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here. We hired a full-time nanny several months ago, she has lots of childcare experience, but this is her first nanny gig. I am sure she is aware that full-time nannies often get some benefits or other, but she has never asked us for any. Once when I had to cancel her coming in the following day, I gave her some extra cash, about half of what she would have made for that day, and she was hesitant about taking it and asked me a couple times if I was sure. The sense I get is she is the kind of person who does not like to take money for hours she did not work because she did not "earn" it. On one hand, I feel guilty about not paying her benefits because if only she asked, I definitely would, and I also feel like it is a way of showing her my appreciation. OTOH, we are saving thousands of dollars. Am I overthinking this? Should I just lose the guilt and be happy that she does not expect anything more from us? I don't worry that she will leave us for a better-paying gig.[/quote] OP did you even draw up a nanny/employer agreement? If this nanny is full-time of 40 hours a week, if yes then she should get paid even if you do not need her. Being paid for employment is different then what a benefit is so yes do pay her. You are also correct nannies do talk but with benefits, there are the usual but this is all negotiated with an agreement.[/quote]
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