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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here, and this reminds me so much of my inlaws.  First clue, they only see their daughter once a year, and they still didn't schedule their trip around when she could take off work.  
I hate it when my MIL does this.  I always feel so bad for my husband.  Yes, she is a crappy grandma, a terrible MIL, and not great to our nanny.  But she is really not that important of a person in any of our lives.  But she is his mom, and it's like she can't be inconvenienced at all to come when he is free or give enough notice that he can take off work.  The whole situation sucks, OP.[/quote]

What's bizarre about it is when my youngest had his 1st birthday the DADs parents forgot but happened to be in town helping their daughter/his sister out with a move and mb says they came over for about 10 minutes with a card as an afterthought. Then not too long ago I was at the park with the kids and they had cousins playing there that I'd never met that only lived down the street. I met the aunt and she hadn't seen my charges since last year. The entire dynamic in the family is strange. It makes me wonder if it's really my NFs doing since both sets of GPs are standoffish. It's sad to watch though. My 3 yr old kept trying to find the Gd to do things with him and I had to keep distracting him because he was not interested AT ALL. I've never seen a grandfather that doesn't want to toss a ball around with or hug their grandsons. Everyone is different though. [/quote]

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