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if you don't want unsolicited relationship advice, don't talk about your relationship.

[b]She would ask me about my relationships.  Even made it clear she wanted that to be her next occupation. always told me to not marry a short man. Date men at least 5 years older than me, etc etc I was in THIS woman's home and she would come around and talk and gossip whenever she didn't have a call.
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if you want to have sick days and guaranteed hours, you need to ask for it during the interview process.

[b]Obviously and I attempted to renegotiate this later 
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if you don't want to run errands, find a polite way o say it isn't part of your agreed upon job description.

[b]Thats a LOT easier said than done, The provided the car I drove and a lot of these places were near my oldest charges school so she would throw it in last minute
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if you don't want to text with her as often, then don't respond to her texts immediately.

[b]I dont respond immediately but I was keepinging touch initially for pictures and updates on the boys and it started to turn into more
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Why did you bring the kids Easter baskets full of gifts? Completely unnecessary.

[b]When you love kids and miss them that is something you do.  Like I said I was close with them and the family
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It's your birthday weekend. Why did you agree to go visit with them?

[b]It was her suggestion.  Guess you're just a bitch right off of the bat when you get asked something without warning and don't have time to think through a response
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Be an adult. If you don't want to visit with them when she asks, tell her that day/weekend doesn't work for you.

You complain about things like dishes and running errands, yet you say you like to stay busy and you decorated their Christmas tree. That's very contradictory.

[b]I do like to stay busy.  My work agreement said I would unload the DW  and clean the kids dishes.  yet she would leave dirty dishes in the way.  If the baby would be sleeping I would just go ahead and move them.  But most of the busy work that liked to do were things like arts and craft prep for my older charge and for when the baby got older
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The my nanny/snobby comment sounds like it's all in your head. Same with her "jealousy" over you when her husband is in the room.

[b]I am not exaggerating AT ALL.  She would even say little things like "I don't need little tenderonies around my husband" but would make it sound like a joke.  Or "Hmmm looks like y'all are having a good time over there."  why would I make up something like that? to entertain you?  And she was a very snobby person.  It was only towards me in the beginning but then she would start saying things about the teachers at her son's older school and her neighbors.  AGAIN why would I make this up? 
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I agree with the PP. You need paragraphs.

[b]Thanks for letting me know.  Now since you would like that tell me how to go back and edit the OP to have Paragraphs.  Like I said before I was on a phone and didn't even realize the length
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Are you her? because you sure did take this personal.  Thanks for the unnecessary ugliness.[/quote]

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