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[quote=Anonymous]This is 7:15.  Personally, I would say something like the following.  "I've noticed your husband is here frequently when I get home.  How long is he typically here before I arrive?  ...Ok, thank you for telling me.  It is very important to me to hear about and know what is going on during the days, so I was surprised to see your husband here regularly because we hadn't discussed other people being with you and the kids on a regular basis.  I know you love your husband and he seems like a lovely person.  However, we interviewed you, talked to your references, got to know you.  We don't know your husband and, not knowing him, are uncomfortable with him being around our children regularly."  If I was ok with him, I'd still want to do a background check if he was going to be in my house and, if this is a regular occurrence, changes are he would be when the weather isn't nice.  I don't think you can be too careful.  You're the parent and the one ultimately responsible for safety.  [/quote]

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