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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I couldn't care less about the sex. Here's what I do care about:

1) A rotation of strangers through my house
2) My AP being distracted and acting weird when romantic partner is there
3) Canoodling on my couch, possibly making the rest of the household feel like they were invading space by being around
4) Random people eating breakfast with me[/quote]

Another +1 to this. I have no moral qualms about premarital sex. God knows I had more than my fair share. My first AP, however, brought a series of boyfriends -- or, more accurately termed, booty calls -- home because I was not specific enough in my handbook and I was bending over backwards to treat her like an adult. I don't care that she was over 25, she had both extremely bad judgment and extremely poor taste in men.

I believe in starting out strict and then loosening up the rule for a great AP. If my current (or either of my last two) APs had developed a serious relationship, I would have gladly discussed the "no romantic sleepover" rule and figured out how to make it work for all of us. It was a non-issue though.[/quote]

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