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[quote=Anonymous]That would not be tolerable in my house. Our AP needs to get along with both of us, or I would rematch. It would not be OK for me to be uncomfortable in my own house when both DH and the AP were home -- that would feel too much like I had to pick sides about which one (DH or AP) deserves to be there or which one is "right" or "wrong." Sometimes it's just chemistry. If there are behaviors that can be fixed, address them. If it's just a case of your AP and your DH do not and probably cannot click, then you should rematch. Not only is it uncomfortable for you, but it can't be that comfortable for your kids either.[/quote]
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