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[quote=Anonymous]AP and DH never warmed up to each other. It's like the Cold War in our house - no screaming or fighting just lots of passive aggressive activities, door slams and silent family dinners. AP acts totally fine with me - chatty, warm etc. anytime DH is home she locks herself In her room. On weekends she spends all her time at another APs house - including holidays. It's our first AP - I put a lot of the blame on DH for not making an effort and treating her more like an employee than family member. AP is also very immature and has told me she never saw her father. I try to mediate but it's going nowhere. DH has said "no more APs" and wants to pull the plug before our year is up - but our kid loves her so much. Im overwhelmed with working long hours, then doing household stuff and full time mom - it's non stop then I have to deal with this. Any advice?[/quote]
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