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[quote=Anonymous]So, I've been paying a sitter $15 an hour 2 days a week for 5 hours at a stretch to do the following: walk 4 year old to pre-k (4 blocks away) come home with 2 year old and play. at 1, gather DS from PK, head home, do a puzzle/game with both then go home. Durning DS nap, she gets to do homework, read, etc...her time on my dime...no worries NO laundry NO meal prep (I do have her feed DD, but I typically put the meal together) She doesnt even clean up toys before she leaves, leaves her personal dishes in the sink/dirty on the counter And, fine--whatever--because it has been so hard to find middle of the day/middle of the week care, I figured it worked for me overall--she is nice, playful... Then last week I come home and find her sleeping on the sofa while DD is napping and DS is alone in the basement playroom--where she told him to go so she could have some alone time. He is 5. I reviewed the expectations, asked if she was sick...tried to be understanding...and didnt fire her on the spot. Then this week she comes in on Monday, tells me she wont be available next week (SPRING BREAK!) because she found a better paying gig just for the week. So I told her not to come back. Now she is sending me emails and texts telling me I am a monster for kicking her out of our family, for not being supportive of her needs to make more money for a week, for thinking (I kid you not) my "families needs come first"... Am I crazy? Is this chick bonkers, or is it really really different here?[/quote]
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