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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't want the husband to come over (certainly your right to say no),  are you prepared for her to decide she doesn't want to work the overnights? Having her husband there will  more than likely give her a sense of normalcy and help prevent burnout. Being around kids all day is hard. They don't carry a conversation. They whine and cry for no reason sometimes.  You're tired at the end of the day. And you don't want her to even what's a meal with the person she's married to? Would your boss do that to you on a business trip, or would you just have dinner with the husband and not mention it? You're asking her to give up her days off so you can do something fun and you also want to sequester her from her family. Nice. Went done you and your husband flip a coin and decide which one goes to the wedding and Eric by stays home with the kids since you're so paranoid. [/quote]

Presumably her children aren't present on a business trip.

I would want to meet the husband. The nanny has passed background checks. The husband hasn't. They know the nanny, and presumably trust her judgment, so while I don't think they need to run a background check, I would want to meet someone who is going to spend time with my children in my home while I'm away.[/quote]

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