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[quote=Anonymous]What did your older daughter have to say about why she didn't want the AP there? Why doesn't she like AP? How does your 2 yo respond to AP?

To me, that's the most important factor here in how you should proceed, because either you've got a case of a child being disrespectful with a so-so- but not bad - AP or you've got an AP who has earned the dislike of your children and I think you need to listen to that. There are bad childcare providers out there in the world - your children won't tell you the details of why they dislike your AP unless you make it clear that you want to know and you'll believe them when they tell you. Perhaps AP has done nothing egregious, but just doesn't have the personality to work with your kids - or perhaps, the AP has done and is doing something that your 5 yo is right in finding distasteful. Or, perhaps, your child is just being disrespectful because she'd rather have you there instead of AP. You have to find out what you're dealing with.[/quote]

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