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[quote=Anonymous]We've had 2 amazing APs. I'd say their qualities fall into two camps: Relationship with the kids and all around behavior.

Both of them really love our kids. They got down in the dirt and played with them. Kicked soccer balls for hours, play dolls and engaged with them all the time, when other adults might have sat out and watched. They took the time to be patient and understand our kids, really getting to know their personalities and what made each kid tick.

Both of them were also awesome partners to live with. Cleaned up after themselves, took initiative in reorganizing toys or sorting through clothes. Arranged fun activities that involved a lot of effort on their part. They were always helpful around the house and thoughtful about respecting our (limited) rules. They noticed when we were exhausted and stepped in. They noticed when we went out of our way to help them or go the extra mile, and said thank you. They were mature, engaged and lovely people.

I think maturing counts for so much- though it is not defined by age alone. One of our best APs was 19. One was 22. In general, though, I think 20-23 is the best age range to shoot for when matching. I do think you can get a sense of maturity when you talk to them. How do they carry themselves? Are they asking good questions, indicating they have really given thought to the whole program? Do they post photos where they are always in the same pose or other  indicators of a lack of self confidence about their appearance? Do they let their sense of humor shine through?[/quote]

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