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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's only fair you tell them so they can move on. Please don't expect or make them support you financially through this when you won't be giving 100%.[/quote]

What the hell is wrong with you?[/quote]

How is the nannies BF a concern of the MBs? If it was my nanny I would hope she tells me so we can look for someone because no matter how much I appreciate her work on a good day I can't take off every other day for her to be at the hospital or a wake or funeral. I just don't have that kind of flexibility.[/quote]

I'm 15:58 and I'm an MB.  I am quite certain I would never react as this poster is.  Nor would anyone I know who employs a nanny.

Don't take this ridiculousness to heart OP.  It sounds like you have a great relationship w/ your employers and I think a human, caring, warm response from them is likely.  Of course they will need to figure out how to work around time off that you will presumably need, but reasonable people do that.

If you worked for me I would absolutely try to make sure you could take time to be with him.  I've lost loved ones and there is nothing more important that spending time with them while you can.  You and I would figure out together what made sense for you, the kids, us, etc...

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