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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, it would be upsetting, but the only way to truly prevent it is to never have any digital image of your child on any device connected to the internet. So no, I don't buy that the potential trauma of finding out that an otherwise-innocent photo of my child was viewed in a salacious way by strangers is such a major threat that it is worth what it would take to avoid that. I post period photos to facebook (maybe once every few months) and I update my privacy settings regularly to likit who can see my posts. The rest of our photos are stored on a share site that is password protected. But I can't control group photos of their soccer game or field trip and I'm not going to alienate my MIL because she posts more often and has little understanding of privacy settings. The steps required for this to have an actual impact on my kid are: 1) A pervert on the internet finds a photo appealing enough to save, caption and share it 2) That person or someone with whom it was shared is caught exchanging these images (sadly, very rare) 3) The image is traced back to my family by authorities 4) My child learns what has happened I think the guaranteed damage to my child from alienating anyone who attempts to photograph them and from refusing to share images with relatives who would like to build a relationship with my child despite distance just isn't worth the minute possibility that a stray image will actually come back to be harmful to us.[/quote]
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