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[quote=Anonymous]Backstory: I nannied for this woman's twins from their first birthday for the next 4 years.  MB had a history of being irresponsible (late pay, etc.) and inconsiderate but I stuck it out.  I was going to move on and she told me she was leaving her husband and had filed for separation that week, so I stayed another year to provide consistency to the kids.

I have now moved on and she made a big freaking deal when I left about how I will always be in their lives.  For their birthday this weekend I had planned an outing with them on Saturday and cleared it all with her over a month ago, talked to the kids about it for weeks, etc.  I texted her today to ask what time I should pick them up and she said, "oh, actually only one twin can go, the other has a club activity.  Hope that's okay."

Seriously?  No, it's not okay.  I scheduled this time with both of them because I don't get to see them after being their primary caregiver for 5 years.  It's rude as hell for her to cancel without giving me the courtesy of talking it over and scheduling another time for this event (there now is no other time because I am booked for all weekend days other than this one, which I specifically reserved).  Firthermore, she didn't even inform me after the fact.  I love these kids and it hurts so much to be shown that my role in their lives is completely disposable in her opinion.[/quote]

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