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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is entirely possible it has nothing to do with you, though it may eventually affect you. Examples:

Lay offs at someone's job
Lost promotion
someone having an affair/other marriage problems
grandparent health issue and demands on parents
major unexpected household expense
troubles TTC

Any of these might cause spillover tension in the household, and I'm sure there are a lot more. If it's really bad, you could say, [b]"MB, is everything OK? It feels like there's some unusual tension here, and I'd really like to address it if we can."[/b]

If it really has nothing to do with you, that might clear the air.[/quote]

Excellent advice.  But are you sure that there is nothing that you, the nanny, want to clear the air about?  You said that she is bugging you - why?  [/quote]
Every nanny knows what she means. Leave her alone.[/quote]

NP here and I don't think OP came here and posted to be left alone.  I agree that this would be a prime time for OP to tell her MB where she feels "bugged" as well.  If MBis micromanaging, being disrespectful, not appreciative, etc - that is all information that MB should have.  [/quote]

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