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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My charge is having a huge event and I wouldn't have missed it for the world except that MB moved the date up 3 weeks last minute and I already had travel plans scheduled to see my own family. I told her I didn't want to miss it and would try my best to adjust my plans.

The second I said that, she asked if I could pick up some chairs and deliver them to the venue the day of and drop back off the next night. She also asked since the party planner is a family friend who said due to having to set up party she would miss services that morning, could I come super early and help with set up so this woman can make the first event. Wtf. Now there's no way I want to skip seeing my family, she completely diminished my relationship with charge and her family by wanting me to be part of help staff with no pay of course because I'm an invited guest. I'd like to know how to break this to charge, that I can't come and also how to tell MB I no longer am available. Tia. [/quote]

To the mother "I am so sorry but I wasn't able to change my travel plans.  I found out that my grandmother (father, brother, whomever...) is having a big party for me."

To the child, "I love you and I hate to miss your fun party! Let's make a plan for our own special celebration when I get back".

I'm sorry, OP.     [/quote]

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