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[quote=Anonymous]I would start by telling the kid it is NOT ok to crap his pants. Too many people are afraid of hurting kids feelings which is nonsense. They need boundaries and telling them it's not socially acceptable not medically necessary to poop his pants isn't going to scar him in any way. You're teaching him the ways of the world. We do this, not that. Then I would ask the parents why they didn't mention it and what their plan (if any) is for fixing the situation. At what point do they plan to have him completely trained? Are they going to wait for him to figure it out on his own (hint: he's not going to.) Then I would offer some kind of reward/sticker chart/treat, SOMETHING to motivate him. And I would also have him start cleaning up any mess that ensues from him pooping his pants on purpose. Don't make this easy or fun for him. He makes the mess, he cleans it up (even if you have to go behind him and do it again.) [/quote]
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