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[quote=Anonymous]I recently quit a position where I was accused by the dad of doing something absolutely horrible. I was heartbroken that he thought that I had done what he accused me of.  I thought they really liked me and trusted me and his accusation was a huge slap in the face. Later after I quit the mother called me telling me that he was way out of line and that she really liked me and was fuming mad at her husband right now. I broke down in tears while I was talking to her and told her that his accusation had really hurt me. She kept apologizing and asked if I would please come back, but I told her I could no longer work with her husband. She ended the conversation with saying that she understood and she told me that I could use her as a reference and that she would write a wonderful review on care.com for me.

How do I get past this? I know I need to just jump right back in and start looking for a job, but this has really scarred me. I asked the mother over and over again if I had done something to make them not trust me and she told me no that I was wonderful and that her husband just has issues trusting people. This just scares me for future jobs. What he accused me of was really serious. What if he had gotten the police involved? It would have been my word against his. I just don't even know what to think right now. I love being a nanny and have been one for 10 years. How do I move on from this?       [/quote]

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