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Reply to "Interviewing and that feeling that "something is not right"."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Long-time nanny here. I had that feeling about something not being right, took the job anyway, and regretted it for a long time. I can't tell you how many times I thought back to my gut feelings in the interviews, and wish I would have listened to them. I would advise you either to just keep looking, or ask for a casual-type visit. I'm assuming they have offered you the job? In another visit, you could stay and play with the toddler while chatting with the MB, etc., for 2-3 hours. Offer to do it for free, even. In the long run, it'll be worth it. Sell it to them as a more casual, get-to-know-you type thing. You can see if she is still flakey, or if it was just the first interview. You can also see if there are solutions to the toddler/busy street issue, etc. You will get a better feel for the whole picture. You can do the trial period too, of course, but that may be more disruptive for all involved. I'm guessing that a longer visit there may tell you what you need to know to decide. [/quote] Thank, PP, that is good advice. [/quote]
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