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[quote=Anonymous]I think this could go either way.  Maybe you are hovering too much and "reminding" to the point that she feels like you believe she's incompetent.  The first scenario could be her getting annoyed with being micromanaged and the second could be an extension of that.  Maybe she feels that you are telling her aboutthe weekend as a way of "teaching" her about your kid, and she resents the implication that her 5 days a week with him/her aren't sufficient.

That said, it is also possible that you do NOT hover and your nanny is being a jerk for no reason.  Maybe you only remind  her of things that she could easily/has in the past forgotten, but she thinks you should never instruct her in any way because she knows best.  Maybe you only share brief anecdotes from the weekend in an attempt to bondand she is shutting them down because she feels you are wasting her time.

Regardless of whete this started, she is currently being rude and that is a bad sign.  No healthy relationship can survive contempt, which is what she is displaying.  I agree that you need to:
A) figure out what you want 
B) talk to her about what she wants
C) try to find some middle ground[/quote]

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