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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi new mom and congratulations, having a new baby and trying out a new nanny can be very challenging. There are many here that can get very critical of your questions, ignore them. Three weeks is a bit short and your nanny is part-time also it is most likely difficult for her with trying to impress both you and your mom. With that said, perhaps newborns are not where your nanny is skilled at, waving toys is not always comforting to a baby. How is she talking with your baby, is it a soothing voice or loud? Perhaps you could sit down with your nanny and just communicate without judging but express what you are concerned with. Set up a game plan and give it a bit more time and if in a couple of weeks you are still stressed perhaps yes it is not a good fit. Good luck and please come here with questions, there are some good people here that can help.[/quote] Thanks for the advice. I am working with both the nanny and my mom to give the nanny more time to bond with my baby. She tends to have a slightly louder voice that me or my mom when talking to the baby - but my mom and I tend to be soft-spoken in general. I am going to speak to her today about spending more time with the baby - and also my mom about giving the nanny the space to connect. I am still not 100% sure that her lack of prior experience with newborns is a concern - so I am going to give it a couple more weeks. [/quote]
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