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[quote=Anonymous]I have four close in age, now almost 5 down to one month. I have had a full time nanny since #2 came around. I work part time, but also use the nanny time to run errands, do appointments, cook much more elaborate meals than I could otherwise, nap sometimes, and when there's a new baby, I can be attached at the boob for a few months (and get a nap in sometimes) while the older ones maintain their schedule.

I try to stay out of her way during the day, especially during nap/quiet time so that she gets a break to herself.

I do not ask the nanny to do housekeeping tasks beyond child-related ones (their laundry, clean up after their snacks/meals, help maintain toys). I have another person I've hired to help with those tasks when necessary.

There are some advantages:
-- I have never turned down a nanny's request for time off, because I am always available to cover.
-- Start and end times are firm, and there is never a chance I'll be home late.
-- I am often available to take over for a little while so the nanny can go to the bathroom in peace, or can clean up from an activity without having to also corral the children.
-- I often have one or more of the kids myself, so even though she's paid for four children, she often has fewer (not always, and not always on a predictable schedule, but often).
-- When we're doing something difficult, like potty training, we can work together so that it's less stressful. 
-- I'm here, so I'll change diapers, or clean up, or whatever, if it's needed.[/quote]

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